Written by Having friends around can make a huge difference. We all face moments of loneliness, boredom or times when we just need support and good friends help us get through. But honestly, the real challenge isn’t making friends, it’s keeping them.
Life can get complicated and sometimes friendships start to feel one-sided. It’s normal for the balance to shift now and then, but if one person is always giving while the other keeps taking, it begins to wear things down. That’s when the connection starts to fade.
I often hear people say, “Just do what you can and don’t expect anything in return. Do it from the heart.” And while that might sound nice, I don’t believe it really works when it comes to friendships. Friends need to be there for each other, not just when it’s convenient. It takes effort. You show up, you try and you expect the same in return. That’s what makes a real friendship.
At the end of the day, friendships only work when both people put in the effort. Don’t assume a real friend will always just “get it” without communication or consideration. If you’re only seeing things from your side, the same problems will keep showing up. And yes, I’m writing this because I’ve experienced this way too many times myself.